TY - BOOK AU - Solomon,Marion Fried AU - Tatkin,Stan TI - Love and war in intimate relationships: connection, disconnection, and mutual regulation in couple therapy T2 - The Norton series on interpersonal neurobiology SN - 9780393705751 (hardcover) PY - 2011/// CY - New York PB - W.W. Norton & Company KW - Intimacy (Psychology) KW - Interpersonal relations KW - Psychological aspects KW - Marriage N1 - Includes bibliographical references and index; The partnership vision -- Connection and disconnection -- How love turns to war -- The psychobiological imperative -- The psychobiological approach -- Treating the collective -- The partner attachment inventory -- The importance of movement -- The theoretical universe -- Attachment -- Arousal regulation -- Dysregulation -- The theory in practice -- Mark and melody -- David and margaret -- Cyrus and farah -- A neurobiological vocabulary -- Brain -- Memory systems -- Social/emotional skills and deficits -- Nervous system -- Neuroendocrine system ER -